Small Groups
These groups are arrange for life-on-life relationships, but they’re often also grouped by similarities. So, peers are grouped: 20-somethings with 20-somethings, 30-somethings with 30-somethings, and so forth. While you may not discover a mentor in your same small group, look for an additional small group of more seasoned believers. You might find your mentor there.
Lay Ministers at Church
Do you see someone serving consistently at church in the identical ministry or a number of ministries? Is there a Sunday school or youth minister you’d like to emulate? After expecting some time, approach that person and ask them to change into your mentor. Even in the event that they don’t have the time to mentor you, they may probably know someone who does.
Campus Organizations
In your school environment, you might discover a mentor. If you’re a student, do you will have a professor who reveals their faith of their lessons or if you meet them during office hours? If yes, then possibly you’ve found your next mentor.
Look for the People God Has Purposefully Placed around You
Be a great listener if you join other organizations, and keep your eyes open for clues in regards to the people around you. You could also be involved in local organizations like The Boys & Girls Club, 4-H, or a neighborhood Little League. If, while performing regular duties within the civic organization, you see godly qualities in an individual, consider asking other probing questions, like “Do you attend church often?” You could even ask to go to church with that person. If all of the clues point to that person as a robust person of faith, invite them to mentor you. Outline how the mentoring relationship will probably be organized regarding time for that person. Ask him/her to suggest a book you possibly can read together. Ask in the event that they can devote an hour or more often to satisfy with you and check in your progress.
Praying for a Mentor in Faith
If you’re a latest believer, take my word for it. God loves to reply prayer. If all the ideas above seem overwhelming, this one is crucial. Pray. God loves to reply the prayers of His children. Let Him know you would like a mentor, and wait to listen to how He answers you.
Finally, remember mentors aren’t perfect. They are only willing to share their lives. We see strengths and weaknesses in Naomi, a mentor to Ruth (Ruth 1:13, 21), and Paul, a mentor to Timothy (Acts 8:1-3). With the correct expectations, a mentorship could be a refreshing, deeply rewarding experience for each involved.
References: Elmore, Tim. Mentoring: How to Invest Your Life in Others. Indianapolis: Kingdom Business Ministries (1995).
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