“They are gossips” (Romans 1:30).
Gossip generally is a sign of greed. Taking the freedom of aligning someone with our agenda is dangerous. Comparison and gossip are closely linked when spoken out loud. Listen to how one leads right into the opposite.
“Well, she bought those earrings at the shop….” “Her daughter has it, so mine should, too …” “She stays at home, so should I.”
When we compare gifts and possessions with others, we’re letting greed run away with unrealistic desires. God’s intention for our lives is fullness and blessing. He gives us all we’d like, and instructs a grateful heart. Listing what we’re thankful for helps thwart this heartache. Listen to the difference:
“Wow, I’m so grateful I get to …” “I’m so thankful for …” “We are so blessed …”
The other half of the comparison will drop-off when our focus is on what we now have already been blessed with.
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