Husbands contribute to their wives’ sense of security. This is greater than physical security. It is emotional and financial security. Security in a wedding is having a high confidence level in your spouse. It doesn’t feel like sand in your hands. For example, it isn’t knowing if we’ll have the ability to pay a bill or if he’ll go off on me. It’s vital for wives to feel secure with their husbands.Â
What makes a wife feel most secure in a wedding is consistency. Consistently paying the bills and consistently coming home on time. Consistently complimenting your wife and letting her know she is the primary person in your life. If there may be a scarcity of security in your marriage, it could actually chip away at your wife’s confidence as a girl, a wife, and a mother, spilling into other areas of her life, too. It could make her doubt herself and doubt your marriage. It takes a toll.Â
Tabatha Claytor is a lead pastor and co-founder of Alive Church, with campuses in Gainesville, FL, and Orlando, FL, and online. She can be the founding father of Pio Woman, a ministry that equips and empowers women to pioneer their lives. Married for twenty-four years, they live in Orlando, Florida, with their 3 children, Hannah, Charity, and Kenny.
