We were designed and destined for companionship, from the very starting. In Genesis 2:18, God says that it isn’t good for man to be alone, which tells us that our Father never intended for His beloved children to do that life alone, in isolation.
Our God, in His infinite love, first seeks a relationship with us (Deuteronomy 6:4, John 17:3). Those words sound easy to say (and even write), but ponder that for only a moment. Our God wants all the pieces to do with you and me! He seeks after our hearts, minds, and souls while giving us precious guarantees to cling to and an handbook that lays out the best way to live and love others.
God cares a lot about our relationship with Him and others because He is a relational God (John 17:3). He even offers us a phenomenal depiction of what our relationships should seem like, in accordance with His will, once we read His Word. He calls us to undergo Him first, after which to faithfully serve our spouse (Ephesians 5:21-33). He asks us to responsibly raise our kids (Proverbs 22:6), and to honor our parents (Ephesians 6:1-3). He also has much to say about friendships, knowing that “sweet friendships” refresh our souls (Proverbs 27:9).
Dear brothers and sisters, fellowship isn’t optional, it is important for us to live a full and abundant life. But, while we may know this to be true, it isn’t all the time really easy to create and cultivate Christ-centered friendships, especially since they’re still marked by two imperfect people.
Perhaps, you end up navigating a treacherous season of loneliness or enduring a friendship that comes with a bit of confusion or heavy conviction. God often puts us in various seasons in life, in order that we will solely depend on and trust Him (Proverbs 3:5-6). It also gives us room to grow and learn more about ourselves and others.
So, regardless of where you end up today, I invite you to settle your heart and calm your soul by clinging to Jesus’ powerful words. Let’s learn what He has to say about creating and cultivating friendships that give attention to love.
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